There is nothing wrong with your path or where you are right now!
I understand judgement, what if feels like to have other people judge your place in life, your choices, your path.
I am a mortgage agent and Life and Success coach. I help people be, do and have their dreams.
I also happen to have a JD (law degree), an MBA, and I am licensed to practice law in two states. I have owned and run a food manufacturing company, which I grew 200%, from $200K per year in sale to $2.5M per year in sales, in 5 years. I have written and published a book. When I put my mind to something, I accomplish it.
When people know this about me and then hear what I do inevitably the questions come. “Why aren’t you ____?” “Why aren’t you a lawyer?” “Why aren’t you running a business?” “why don’t you have a corporate job?” Essentially, why aren’t you… More? Why doesn’t your life make sense to me (person asking question)?
And when those questions come, I can feel my ego rise in my chest. I can feel it, the need to tell people how good I was at those things. How I could be those things, if I wanted, and be damn good. I also what to tell them how successful I am at what I do. My ego wants them to know that I AM GOOD ENOUGH!
Then I calm myself, I smile, and I say “that’s not my path.” And I feel good. I feel great. I don’t need them to understand my choices because it’s my path, not theirs, and it only needs to make sense to me.
” Love my life”
HI,
I,m Angela Bell
I am a life and success coach for moms of small children. I help them release limiting beliefs and negative self talk, to free themselves to go after their dreams and live their best life.
See, I love where I am in life. I am happy, fulfilled, I help people in variety of ways. I am always learning, always challenged. I feel good. I am happy. And that is what matters. I am never going to be what everyone wants me to be, but I am what I want me to be. And everyday I strive to be the best version of me that I can be. So, no, I don’t need their approval. I need my approval.
There is nothing wrong with the path you have chosen, as long as you are happy, and making your own choices. You don’t need anyone else’s approval or blessing to be you. Your life does not need to make sense to anyone other than you. There is no “right” path, or right way through life. There is no prize at the end for getting it right and following some unknown set of rules. The only prize is your happiness, your joy, your peace and contentment. And no one is going to give that to you.
I can help you learn new things. I can help you learn to balance a budget, succeed in business, even manifest you wildest dreams… as long as you are doing it for you. Don’t do things for other people’s approval. No one else’s opinion of you matters. Full stop.
What ever path you are on, it’s good enough.
All my love,
XO
Hi,
I,m Angela Bell
I am a life and success coach for moms of small children. I help them release limiting beliefs and negative self talk, to free themselves to go after their dreams and live their best life.
